The Badge of Honor That's Killing Your Business with Deric Keller

Guest: Deric Keller - Certified Business Coach with Exit Momentum, former $10M business owner
Episode Overview: Financial advisor David Chudyk interviews business coach Deric Keller about strategies that make businesses more profitable, sellable, and sustainable while improving owner wellbeing.
Key Topics Discussed:
1. Common Hiring Mistakes
- Founders often hire to "fill a seat" rather than designing the role first
- This creates "Frankenstein roles" that are hard to replace and measure
- Best practice: Use the "elevate and delegate" model - categorize tasks by what you love/hate and are good/bad at, then delegate the bottom tier
2. The Hustle Trap
- Business owners often wear burnout as a "badge of honor"
- Example: Owner doing parts runs while $60K in bids pile up (70-80% close rate)
- Key insight: Are you busy with the right things that generate revenue?
- Delegate tasks you hate/aren't good at to focus on high-value activities
3. Tracking the Wrong Metrics
- Most founders track profit incorrectly by hiding expenses to avoid taxes
- This hurts: credit applications, equipment financing, home purchases, and business valuation
- Clean books = higher business value
4. What Drives Business Valuation Factors that LOWER value:
- Over-reliance on one customer (lack of diversification)
- Weak human capital (high turnover, inexperienced staff)
- Missing systems/processes/intellectual property
- Poor financial predictability
- Single vendor dependency
Factors that INCREASE value:
- Customer diversification
- Strong, experienced team
- Documented systems and processes
- Recurring revenue (3-6 point multiple increase)
- Clean financial records
5. Understanding Business Multiples
- Most businesses sell for a multiple of EBITDA (Earnings Before Interest, Taxes, Depreciation, Amortization) or net profit
- Typical multiples: 1-3x (weak business) to 6-15x (strong business with recurring revenue, great systems)
- SaaS companies often valued on revenue multiples (though AI is currently driving these down)
- Who buys you affects the multiple (strategic buyer vs. PE firm)
6. When Hustle Stops Working
- Hard work creates bottlenecks when you're the decision-maker for everything
- Leads to: burnout, key person dependency, slowed growth
- Solution: Decentralized command (like military model) - give teams the mission, let them execute
- Balance: You can't give equal TIME to business/family/health, but you can give equal INTENTION
7. The 3D Diagnostic Model
- Direction: Where is the company going? What are the goals?
- Design: What's the structure, systems, processes, financial model?
- Dynamic: What's the human element? Who might be holding you back?
8. Leadership Development
- Leadership is a learned skill, not innate talent
- Requires repetition and practice ("reps")
- Best professionals in every field have coaches
9. Work-Life Integration Strategies
- Be strategic with focus and intention
- When with family: phone down, fully present
- Gym time: have a plan, execute, leave energized
- Daily practices: journaling, meditation, prayer, gratitude
- Learn-teach-implement cycle: consume content, teach it to someone, apply it
10. Definition of Wealth Deric's answer: Legacy - Making an impact that outlasts you, influencing people you'll never meet through the business owners and teams you coach
Call to Action: Visit ExitMomentum.com to:
- Take a free business assessment
- Book a 3D diagnostic call (no cost)
- Access free tools and insights
- Schedule an in-person leadership lab
Key Takeaway: A sellable business is a good business, even if you never sell it. Building systems, diversifying revenue, and developing your team creates value regardless of your exit timeline.
Links referenced in this episode:
00:00 - Untitled
00:07 - Introduction to Business Strategies with Derek Keller
05:53 - The Importance of Delegation in Business
11:18 - Understanding Business Metrics: The Importance of Profit and Valuation
21:16 - The Dynamics of Business Growth
32:14 - Navigating the Challenges of Business Ownership
One of these days I'll tell you about a cool collaboration that I did with a big company and they introduced me to Derek Keller.
Speaker ADerek is a business coach and we're chatting today about some business strategies that can make your business more profitable, more sellable, and quite frankly, maybe even just increase the mental well being of the business owner.
Speaker ASo I hope that you enjoy this episode.
Speaker AWelcome to the weekly wealth podcast.
Speaker AI am certified financial planner David Chudick.
Speaker AI spend most of my days talking with business owners, the mass affluent and the high net worth about their money.
Speaker AWe talk about their financial dreams, we talk about their financial worries, and we talk about the decisions that they know they need to make.
Speaker AThat is what this show is about.
Speaker AToday we have Derek Keller.
Speaker AHe's a certified business coach with Exit Momentum and a former $10 million business owner.
Speaker AHe helps entrepreneurs install systems, leadership, rhythm and strategy needed to grow profitably and prepare for long term exit or freedom.
Speaker AHey Derek, how are you?
Speaker BGood, good.
Speaker BHow you doing?
Speaker AI'm doing well.
Speaker AI love talking exit planning, I love talking about business strategies and as a financial advisor, I think that our businesses are literally the greatest wealth building tool that we'll ever see.
Speaker ABetter than buying XYZ stock or anything like that.
Speaker AAnd yes, you are going to give me free business coaching and yes, I'm going to be taking notes and hopefully implementing some things.
Speaker AHow'd you get into the business coaching business and you're not one of them coaches that are a coach because you're not able to do what you coach people?
Speaker BNo, actually we, we actually require our coaches to have been a business owner, a successful business owner, and have scaled and grown and sold businesses.
Speaker BSo that's one of our requirements as being a coach with eggs and women.
Speaker BIt's a little bit different.
Speaker BBut I guess to your question, tell you a little bit about me is I grew up Rock Springs, Wyoming, small town, didn't really think that I'd amount to much.
Speaker BMy teachers were the ones that always said that they were surprised with the things that I've done, which I'm sure some of you out there can relate to that.
Speaker BI left Rock Springs, Wyoming and ended up in the Marine Corps of all things.
Speaker BAnd there I learned a lot about leadership and how to really guide people in there.
Speaker BI don't know that I learned the best ways to guide people, but it taught me a lot of different dynamics in running and growing people.
Speaker AIs leadership something that like you're either you have or you don't?
Speaker ABecause I think sometimes we think, hey, Derek's A good leader or Derek's a bad leader.
Speaker AAnd if Derek is a good leader, he's always been a good leader.
Speaker AOr if Derek is a bad leader, like, he never can become a good leader.
Speaker BYeah, I don't.
Speaker BI think it's a skill that's developed.
Speaker BThat's the way that I think of it.
Speaker BAnd there's some p. There's some charismatic leaders that go out there, and they always seem to say the right thing.
Speaker BBut for the most part, then people have a ton of reps and a ton of practice.
Speaker BThat's definitely one thing I learned in the Marine Corps for sure, is reps.
Speaker BSo you get caught up in the.
Speaker BIn the mundane.
Speaker BI remember sitting in the squad bay dry firing a rifle into the wall for two weeks before we were able.
Speaker BEver able to hit the rifle range.
Speaker BSo it.
Speaker BWe definitely do reps. We call it muscle memory, but all about the rims.
Speaker AYou got to get the easy things right almost 100% of the time, don't you?
Speaker AAll right, so business owner founders.
Speaker AThese are interesting people.
Speaker AThese are people that maybe had an idea, they had a dream, maybe they had a skill.
Speaker AMaybe like a guy that likes building houses, starting a house building business because he's.
Speaker AHe likes construction and carpentry.
Speaker AThese people, like, what is the first hire that they normally get wrong?
Speaker AWhere do they mess up?
Speaker BThey hire to fill a seat.
Speaker BThey hire to just have a warm body.
Speaker BMost of the time when we're hiring, we just hire to fill a hole.
Speaker BAnd in reality, we should be designing the position or the role that we need to hire before we ever make the hire.
Speaker BThat keeps us from having these Frankenstein type roles and having these people who just were bolting different parts onto, and then they become either very hard to replace or very unproductive.
Speaker BAnd we can't seem to measure how they're doing or what they're doing.
Speaker ASo what's a good hiring process?
Speaker AAgain, maybe you're in the beginning of building a business, and again, you're a house builder, two by fours, you know, doorknobs, walls.
Speaker AAnd you might know that maybe you like me, we're friends.
Speaker ABut how would you know if I'm the guy that can fill that role?
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AIf I have the right soft skills, the right hard skills.
Speaker ABecause that, I think is a hard question for almost everybody is like, how the heck do you know who to h. So talk to us about your process or some thought processes around that question.
Speaker BYeah, so there's a couple of different processes that I have, and it really goes depending on how big you are and how much you really need to get into the recruiting.
Speaker BBut let's just start at the basics.
Speaker BAnd the very basics are the elevate and delegate model.
Speaker BIf you write down everything that you do during the day, and then you take it and you categorize it out into, hey, these are the things that I love to do and I'm really good at.
Speaker BThese are the things that I like to do and I'm good at.
Speaker BThese are things I hate to do and I'm good at, and these are the things that I hate and I suck at.
Speaker BSo I usually try to categorize things out, and then I'll take.
Speaker BAnd I'll.
Speaker BIf I'm just gonna delegate some things off.
Speaker BAnd especially at this small business type position where you're just kind of everybody's scrambling and doing a lot of things.
Speaker BI try to get that bottom row off of my plate as quick as possible so that I can get up and do the things that I love and, like, do so that I'm.
Speaker ABut how does an owner or a leader get past?
Speaker ABecause I think there's a weird badge of honor that I'm so miserable, I do crap that I hate all day, and I worked 130 hours a week.
Speaker AAnd I think a lot of business owners just want to be known as, like, the guy that grinds.
Speaker AAnd obviously grinding, you got to grind, but you also have to bring in revenue and do.
Speaker AAnd if you're dreading working all day, that's not good either.
Speaker ASo mentally, how does that owner get out of that?
Speaker ALike, think it's okay to get stuff off their plate?
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BI mean, by figuring out that you're.
Speaker BYou're not productive in these things.
Speaker BI've got a business owner, for instance, that we were sitting down in a meeting, and we started talking about him doing parts, running and running all over the place throughout the day, and answering all these phone calls.
Speaker BAnd the things that were stacking up on his desk were bids.
Speaker BAnd he closes at a 70 to 80% closing ratio when he gets a bid out.
Speaker BSo what we found by stacking up all the bids that he had on his desk is he was costing himself $60,000 a day by not getting bids.
Speaker BSo you have to make it hurt.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BIt's not saying that you can't hustle, you can't grind, and you can't put your nose to the grindstone.
Speaker BIt's the fact that are you doing it in the right places?
Speaker BAre you doing it with the right things?
Speaker BAnd oftentimes we're not.
Speaker BWe're getting caught up in busy work and firefighting throughout the day rather than doing the things that actually create the revenue and produce for us and ultimately charge us up and get us going into the next level.
Speaker AI feel you.
Speaker AI've been there for years.
Speaker AThere were years that I did all.
Speaker ADid everything.
Speaker AAnd I think sometimes it's hard to say that's not my job.
Speaker ABut I think.
Speaker AI also think you need to get to a point where, no, that's not my job.
Speaker AI'll jump in if I have to.
Speaker ABut this may be.
Speaker ASo, as an example, bookkeeping.
Speaker AI finally, years ago, I gave in and I hired a bookkeeper because there's no reason in the world for any book business owner do their own books.
Speaker AAnd my bookkeeper said, I love balancing books.
Speaker AAnd I was like, are you crazy?
Speaker ALike, you enjoy this?
Speaker AWhat kind of a.
Speaker ABut she does.
Speaker AAnd she probably would hate making sales calls because it's a different skill.
Speaker ASo I think there are always people who enjoy or love doing what you hate doing, and.
Speaker BYeah, and on top of that, they're going to do it a whole lot better than you do.
Speaker BThere's always that crazy dynamic of trying to let things go and get things off your plate.
Speaker BAnd I think that the hardest thing to do is, like, you said that badge of honor that you wear, that, hey, you know what?
Speaker BI'm hustling, I'm grinding, I'm doing my thing, and just realizing that every minute that you spend there, you're costing yourself.
Speaker AAnd I don't know, like, I think we all know this, but I think sometimes paying you or someone like you to tell us this and make us change, I think is what's important.
Speaker ABecause in a lot of ways, if you wanted to get in better shape and lose weight, like, you know how to do it, the basics, but you're still gonna do better at it.
Speaker AIf you're paying a personal trainer, whether or not you show up, you're gonna show up, and you're gonna get that extra rep.
Speaker AWhereas if you know you're supposed to do some bicep curls, you might do a few.
Speaker AAre you gonna do as many as you need to?
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BThe best in the world, best professionals in the world all have coaches.
Speaker BSo who do you want to be?
Speaker BDo you want to be the best in your game, or do you want to be just average?
Speaker BAnd that's really where what it comes down to is how do you want to.
Speaker BHow do you want to position yourself, and how do you want to operate do you want somebody that's going to be there to call you out?
Speaker BTrue.
Speaker BA players want somebody to call them out and push them.
Speaker BAnd the people who just want to ride the status quo, they're going to, they're going to ride the middle and they're just not going to push themselves outside of their comfort zone.
Speaker AYou know, it's really interesting as a financial advisor, I am a coach, I know the financial rules and everything, but ultimately I'm here to help clients have the behaviors that will bring them towards their goals.
Speaker AAnd, and my successful clients, to a large part, most of them say, yeah, you just tell me what to do and I'll do it.
Speaker AThat's why I'm paying you.
Speaker APlus, I'm running a business and I can't spend time researching the IRA rules.
Speaker AYou need to know that.
Speaker AAnd in a lot of the other clients, maybe some of the less successful ones, they're gonna debate, maybe I could get an extra half point if I invest here or invest there and almost argue with the coach.
Speaker AAnd I think arguing with the coach may not bring the best results.
Speaker AWe're not always exactly right, but we, I think we can point people in the right direct much more often than not.
Speaker BSo yeah, it's really that the eyes outside of the room, right, the expert that can point you in the right direction.
Speaker BUltimately it's your decision to, to make whatever decision you want to do.
Speaker BBut we're that third party that you can lean into, that you can ask questions to, that can be the expert for you, that can bring other tools from other places that can see things from, in other industries that maybe might make sense in your industry for you guys as financial advisors, seeing, seeing all these different, different investments and different opportunities and different banking that there's.
Speaker BOne of my, my, my financial investor called me up and told me about some savings account that was given 9% back and it was like, oh, okay, that's one way to do it.
Speaker BJust set it over there.
Speaker BThere's, you guys know the ins and outs and what's performing and what's not performing.
Speaker BAnd there's so many, so many different dynamics to it that you really have to be a professional in that industry to, to be able to see the things that other people don't see.
Speaker ASo let's talk about founders and we're talking about, we're not talking Elon Musk here who's built a trillion dollar business.
Speaker AWe're talking about 1, 10, 15, 20 people employee companies.
Speaker AWhat's a metric?
Speaker AAnd I know that we all should be looking at our numbers and we should know where revenue's coming from, where our expenses go and all that.
Speaker ABut what's a metric that most founders are tracking incorrectly?
Speaker BMan, one of the, one of the biggest metrics that founders definitely track incorrectly is profit.
Speaker BThey're constantly trying to put different things and hide different things and then ultimately messing with the valuation of their company.
Speaker BThey're oftentimes trying to put so many things inside of the business because they're trying to avoid paying taxes or whatever they're trying to do.
Speaker BUltimately, they end up hurting themselves when it comes time to get that line of credit, to be able to get the house or do the do that extra piece of equipment or do the things that they ultimately want to do because they're shifting and hiding money outside of whatever they're doing.
Speaker BBut they end up messing with their profitability, which ultimately not only hurts the business as far as being able to make financial decisions, it hurts the business as far as the valuation of the company.
Speaker ALet's step away from the podcast for just a moment.
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Speaker AAnd okay, now let's get back to the podcast.
Speaker AOne of the important things to remember is your business is actually your biggest asset after a point, right?
Speaker AYes.
Speaker AI'm sure you own some outside investments.
Speaker AMaybe you own some Microsoft stock.
Speaker AMicrosoft stock is probably going to go up.
Speaker AIt may go down at points, but nobody from Microsoft is calling you say, hey, Derek, what do you think we should do about XYZ issue?
Speaker ANow, with your business as the owner and the founder, you have a lot of control over the value of your business.
Speaker ASo you can absolutely have help to help to make the make the value of the business grow.
Speaker AWhat are some things that lower the value of a business?
Speaker AAnd what are some things, simple things that might.
Speaker AMight raise the value of a business?
Speaker BYeah, so it's funny that you bring this up because I was sitting in one of my meetings yesterday and this is exactly what we were talking about.
Speaker BWe were Talking about the customer diversification.
Speaker BOftentimes customer businesses get tied up with this one customer and think, oh, this is so great because they're, I can go get all my money from one source and I don't have to run all around.
Speaker BThat kills valuation, that kills the value of your business.
Speaker BHuman capital is a big one that people inside of your business and how they operate, how long they've been there, how knowledgeable they are.
Speaker BIntellectual property, what kind of intellectual property, what kind of systems, processes, things do you have in place that are going to carry on and carry that business forward?
Speaker BFinancial strategy, the ability to predict and look at the what the business is going to be able to do and that's going to help valuation.
Speaker BOf course, any kind of software or things like that are going to drive business valuation as well.
Speaker BBut the main things that people can control are right there in front of you.
Speaker BIt's the intangibles that human capital, the structural capital, the customer capital.
Speaker BMaking sure that we have things really lined out and ensure that we have that diversification across the board.
Speaker BIt also falls into vendors, right?
Speaker BMaking sure that you have vendor diversification.
Speaker BA lot of times business owners think, oh, I've got this great deal over here and I'm just going to solely buy from these people.
Speaker BWe need to create some different abilities for you to pull in this inventory.
Speaker BIf things happen like they did this year with tariffs and things like that, where people got stuck in a big bind.
Speaker BI had one client that ended up with a $300,000 shipment that was supposed to cost him 300,000, ended up costing him 900,000 by the time he got through all the tariffs.
Speaker BDifferent things that got put on.
Speaker AWhat about recurring revenue?
Speaker AI've always heard that's something that helps to drive up the value of a company.
Speaker ASo let's say I own a company that brings in a million dollars of revenue, but it's reoccurring.
Speaker ASo maybe I'm a restaurant and maybe I'm Chick fil a and you might come to eat lunch with me once a week, but you also might miss four weeks.
Speaker AAnd then maybe there's another company, maybe it's a car wash and it's one of them.
Speaker AYou put your credit card in and it just charges you 30 bucks a month or whatever it is.
Speaker AI would rather own that car wash where I know how much money is coming in per month.
Speaker ADo you think that recurring revenue is a major factor within business valuation?
Speaker BYeah, recurring revenue.
Speaker BAnd that's the thing is a lot of people don't Even know the difference between reoccurring and recurring.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BSo like you said, you basically explained it perfectly that reoccurring is the people that just are loyal to your business and are going to continue to come back like the Target versus Walmart shoppers.
Speaker BAnd then the recurring revenue is that monthly membership of something.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker AFitness.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AThey're not in the gym business, they're in the reoccurring that probably 3% of their people come to work out every month.
Speaker ABut it's so cheap that people just never cancel.
Speaker BYeah, that's huge.
Speaker BRight?
Speaker BThat, that, that monthly fee, they're counting on breakage, they're counting on people not showing up.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BAnd then continuing to connect or collect that revenue.
Speaker BAnd yeah, that monthly revenue that drives valuation huge.
Speaker BSometimes anywh 3 to 6 points.
Speaker BAs far as your multiple having that recurring revenue is huge.
Speaker AAll right, then you just said three to six points with regard to the multiple.
Speaker AAnybody who's never sold a business or what is a multiple and what does that mean?
Speaker AAnd what are you multiplying by what just 30,000 foot level stuff here?
Speaker BYeah, so I mean there's different depending on the business.
Speaker BTypically, you know, like your typical, let's just say H Vac or home services business, they're going to get a multiple based on ebitda, right.
Speaker BWhich is your earnings before taxes, amortization, that, that, all that.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BThe EBITDA number or net profit.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BSo if you look at your net profit and that'll usually give you a pretty good idea, take that and times that by a multiple.
Speaker BSo your multiple is figured based on the industry that you're in.
Speaker BIt's based on the human capital, the structural capital, all these intangible capitals and then that different recurring revenue, reoccurring revenue.
Speaker BThey look at all of your numbers, how your loyalty score goes and you can get all the way up in that 6, 10, 15 times multiples depending on how solid you are.
Speaker BAnd then it also depends on, you know, who's buying you.
Speaker BA lot of times people in your own industry will buy you and if they're buying you, typically they're buying you because something that you have that they don't, and if you have something that you have that, if you have something that they don't have, that's going to drive the multiple up.
Speaker BBut if you're getting from a firm or something like that, a lot of times that's going to, that's going to drive a different, they're looking at revenue and all these different things that, that really start to drive the revenue or drive the multiple.
Speaker BWhen you're looking at a SaaS company, which is that software as a service, right.
Speaker BTypically they're getting multiples off of revenue versus off of ebitda.
Speaker BSo that's a crazy thing, right?
Speaker BA lot of people get caught up in going after these SaaS or building these SaaS companies and it's actually with AI right now, it's actually driving the multiples down.
Speaker BSo it's a game.
Speaker AEverything is cyclical.
Speaker ABut tell me if I'm thinking this correctly.
Speaker ASo let's say you have Derek's business and let's the Ibita or I guess EBITDA can almost be thought of like profit.
Speaker ANot exactly.
Speaker ALet's just say it's $100,000 just making up a number.
Speaker ABut I've been looking at your business and I noticed we did some due diligence and your books are not very clean and maybe you've had a lot of turnover with your staff.
Speaker AIf I took over, I'm not really getting a seasoned team.
Speaker ASimilar companies in your industry have, I don't know, 50% of their revenue is recurring.
Speaker AYou don't have any.
Speaker AAnd let's say a typical multiple in your business just making up a numbers four times.
Speaker AI'm going to argue that, hey, I'll buy your business, but I'm not buying it at the typical.
Speaker AThe typical multiple because of this and this.
Speaker AI'll give you two times.
Speaker AAnd then maybe you might say, I'll take two and a half and maybe would.
Speaker ABut.
Speaker ABut if Derek would have been working with Derek's counterpart, the business coach, several years earlier, they would have gotten all of those things fixed and then the business would have sold for market value.
Speaker AAm I looking at this right?
Speaker AAm I oversimplifying it?
Speaker ANo.
Speaker BYeah, you're absolutely right.
Speaker BSo in that scenario, it's definitely going to drive one to three times.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BSo you're only going to get one to three times.
Speaker BBut when you have all these things in place, you're not getting the average, you're getting above average.
Speaker BSo then it goes the other way as well.
Speaker BSo where the average might be 4 to 6, you might get 6 to 10.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BIf you have all the right things in place.
Speaker BSo there's a lot of different dynamics that go into this.
Speaker BAnd on that point Dynamic in our 3D model, we go through what we call a 3D diagnostic with everybody before we ever bring them on.
Speaker BAnd what that is, it's direction.
Speaker BWhat's the direction of the company?
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BWhen you think of that's really like, where we're going, what goals do we have?
Speaker BHow clear are them goals?
Speaker BWhat do we have to really support them goals?
Speaker BAnd then we go into design.
Speaker BWhat's the design of the company?
Speaker BWhat's the structure, the systems, the processes?
Speaker BWhat's that financial model?
Speaker BThen we dive down into the dynamic which we call the human part of that, right?
Speaker BSo what's the human dynamic that we have going on inside of this business so that we can start to see, hey, maybe Joe, who's been with us since the beginning, and we feel like he should be a part of the leadership team because he's been with us since the beginning.
Speaker BMaybe Joe's the one that's holding us back because he has this mindset of, hey, we're a $5 million company and we're just going to stay here.
Speaker BAnd he hasn't really thought beyond the room or what it's going to take to get there.
Speaker BSo he might be very beat, the person who got us here, but isn't going to be the one who's going to get us to the next level.
Speaker BSo we have to be able to see that human dynamic and be able to make the adjustments accordingly.
Speaker ALet's talk about another word.
Speaker AAnd you see all these business coaches, they talk about hustle and grit or I'm not going to lie, I listen to David Goggins sometimes when I'm working out.
Speaker AHe may drop a few F bombs, but it gets me motivated with all the hard work stuff.
Speaker ABut at what point do I need to stop?
Speaker ADoes hard work become counterproductive as a leader?
Speaker BYeah, absolutely.
Speaker BAnd the reason for that is it really causes a bottleneck, right?
Speaker BIt puts a cap on your business because when you're hustling, grinding, you only have so much capacity, right?
Speaker BSo you're going to run into that burnout, that bottleneck, that hero dependency, right, where everybody's coming to you for the answers and it really starts to sl down and almost cut off the faucet inside of your business.
Speaker BSo the, that, that hustle, although it seems it's like it's this badge of honor, it ultimately causes that decisions to.
Speaker BTo not be that decentralized.
Speaker BGoing back to the Goggins and the Jocko where, where you're talking about in the seals, everything's that decentralized command and that really goes all the way across the military.
Speaker BWhen you're thinking of decentralized command, it's really give them the mission and they're going to figure out how to get it done.
Speaker BSo really keeping things from being just all on you, giving them nice feedback loops and getting them things off your plate is one of the biggest things that you could do inside of your business.
Speaker BBecause oftentimes the business owner is that thing that's holding back.
Speaker AThe business leadership comes with responsibilities and I think the responsibility is to have the right people doing the right tasks.
Speaker AAnd also the responsibility is set a lot of times is to say, I, as a leader, I'm not the right person to be completing that task.
Speaker ANot that I'm too good to do it.
Speaker ANot that I'm not a hard worker.
Speaker AEither I can generate more revenue elsewhere or I'm just really not good at that or I don't want to do crap that I that brings me down all day every day and go home drained.
Speaker ABecause I do think that ultimately we want to get to a point where we really enjoy and get uplifted from what we do.
Speaker BOh, absolutely.
Speaker BAnd to your point, like when you're operating in that zone of genius, right, when you're operating in who, who you're naturally built to be, it does exactly that.
Speaker BIt charges you up and to there's that, that David Goggins where you're just hustling all the time and grinding, but.
Speaker BAnd then there's the opposite version of that where there's the people that say, oh, you got to have that four hour work weekly.
Speaker BLike yeah, but really if you want to build something beyond, you've got to have the hustle, you got to have the grind.
Speaker BAnd you're never going to be able to give equal time to your family, to your spirituality, to your body, Right?
Speaker BSo what you have to do is make sure that you're very strategic inside of that and ensuring that you're giving equal intention and equal focus.
Speaker BSo when you do spend time with your family, you need to be able to set your phone down.
Speaker BWhen you go to the gym, you need to have a plan.
Speaker BYou can't just walk in there and scope the gym out, right?
Speaker BWe've all walked into the gym without a plan at some point in time.
Speaker BAnd you walk in and you're just like looking at everything going, oh, I don't really know where to go.
Speaker BWhere we go over here and you lift some things, then go over here and lift some things and.
Speaker BAnd then you never really have a productive workout.
Speaker BBut when you go in with that clear plan, okay, here I'm supposed to go in, I'm doing back and buys today.
Speaker BSo I'm doing this exercise.
Speaker BYou go in and you spend 45 minutes to an hour and you knock out a killer workout, and you leave feeling refreshed and charged up.
Speaker BSame with your family, right?
Speaker BOftentimes we give so much to business that we come home, and all that our family's getting is the leftovers.
Speaker BRight?
Speaker BAnd so we have to look at this from a different standpoint.
Speaker BHow can I charge myself up at business so I can come home, spend time with my family, and get charged up again to go back to business?
Speaker BAnd then that, that.
Speaker BThat intentional spirituality, whether you believe in God or don't believe in God, we can all agree that there's some higher power out there.
Speaker BSo how are you operating, giving intention to your mind and giving it the rest that it needs?
Speaker BAre you doing the daily prayer or the daily meditation or journaling?
Speaker BJournaling is one of the biggest things that, that.
Speaker BThat you hear about from every successful entrepreneur, every successful coach, every.
Speaker BEverybody out there who's finding big success is journaling every day, right?
Speaker BSo whether it's some model of just looking at your wins and losses for the day or doing a gratitude journal or running through one of the.
Speaker BOne of the tools that I use is the stack where it's this opportunity to really look at yourself in the mirror and call yourself out on things and then create action out of it.
Speaker BLike, what are you doing to journal and get things up and out of yourself so that you're not that ticking time bomb that's ready to explode?
Speaker AAnd I think also just knowing yourself, what are my tendencies, what pisses me off, what gets me excited, where do I write that down?
Speaker AAnd then now it's a fact, right?
Speaker BAnd then what are you doing to educate yourself inside of your business?
Speaker BRight?
Speaker BAre you educating yourself every day?
Speaker BAnd what I like to do inside of this is I like to listen to a podcast, read a book, watch a YouTube video, and then I challenge myself with teaching it somebody.
Speaker BBecause if you learn to teach, you learn at a completely different level, right?
Speaker BSo it's going to put you on a different pendulum and put you out there to go do something different.
Speaker AYou and I, it sounds like we're on the same page on a lot of issues, and we could probably do four or five or 10 episodes or talk for several hours, which we obviously can't do because we got to get back to grinding or.
Speaker AOr get back to delegating and leading our teams.
Speaker ABut I did want to ask you if we have a business owner or a leader and they're driving in their car and they're thinking, you Know what?
Speaker ADerek's kind of described me like, I have some of the things going on that, that he's talking about it, and I would like, I have a business.
Speaker AMaybe I don't want to sell it tomorrow, but eventually I might want to, or I just like his philosophy.
Speaker ATell us where they could find you and talk a little bit about how you work with business owners.
Speaker ADo they need to be physically in your area?
Speaker ADo you work virtually?
Speaker BSo typically what we do is we have you go to exitmomentum.com and you can select one of the coach and book a call directly with us to where we could do 3D diagnostic on your business.
Speaker BOr you could go in and take our assessment.
Speaker BThere's an assessment on our website where you can assess yourself and then maybe that exposes some things that asks you some questions and open up, opens up some opportunities for you to think a little bit different.
Speaker BAnd once you fill out that.
Speaker BThat assessment, then it'll ask you if you want to book a call with us and then we can review that assessment and run through a 3D diagnostic and then go through what we call a leadership lab.
Speaker BHave with your leadership team that you currently have.
Speaker BAnd all that is upfront, that none of that costs you anything.
Speaker BSo it's all free from the very beginning for us to give you insights and really give you some different tools to work with and start to work inside of your business on your own.
Speaker BUltimately, we're of course, that next level.
Speaker BYou step in with us, we come on site with you.
Speaker BThe way that works is we fly out to you anywhere in the nation.
Speaker BWe have coaches a little bit everywhere, and I personally am happy to go anywhere, but it's definitely.
Speaker BIt's definitely a whole lot more impactful when we're in the room rather than virtual.
Speaker BSo we don't like to do a lot of virtual.
Speaker AWe will put.
Speaker APut those.
Speaker AThose addresses in the show notes.
Speaker AAnd if listening to Coach Derek is getting you excited and if you feel like you like his philosophies, then definitely reach out.
Speaker AAll right, we're the weekly wealth podcast.
Speaker AHere's the last question that I did not tell you I was going to ask you.
Speaker ASo I always put guests on the spot.
Speaker AI'm a financial advisor and we talk about the mindsets, the tactics, and the strategies that can help you to build and maintain wealth.
Speaker ADerek Killer, what is your definition of wealth?
Speaker AFor you, for your family and all the people in your life that you love and care about, what's your definition of wealth?
Speaker BOh, my definition of wealth would be legacy.
Speaker BAnd what I mean by that is making impact on people that is going to last longer than I ever do.
Speaker BIt doesn't necessarily always have to be about money.
Speaker BIt can be even just that huge impact on people and impacting people that don't even know I exist.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BSo when I impact a business owner or a leadership team or even a one on one client, that it's impacting their whole family, it's impacting their businesses family, it's impacting the generations to come in the way that they show up.
Speaker BI feel like that's wealth to me.
Speaker ANobody has ever given me a dollar amount.
Speaker ANobody's ever said when I have X amount of dollars, I'll have, I'll be wealthy.
Speaker AIt's always some version of freedom or service to others, which is essentially what you said.
Speaker ASo I appreciate that.
Speaker AEnjoyed speaking.
Speaker AI'm in the exit planning field as well, so I think we're both looking at some of the same things with business owners.
Speaker ASo this was really good.
Speaker AHave a couple things I' going to put into practice in my life.
Speaker AAnd yeah, Derek, so appreciate your time.
Speaker AAnd until next episode, I wish everybody a blessed week.
Speaker AThanks, Derek.
Speaker BAll right, David, see you later.
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Speaker AAnd here is this week's bonus content for this episode of the weekly wealth podcast.
Speaker AAnd that's about business ownership being lonely.
Speaker ASo don't go it alone.
Speaker AMake sure you're getting in groups of your business owner colleagues.
Speaker AMaybe you need to work with a coach.
Speaker AMaybe you need to join a mastermind group.
Speaker AMaybe you just need something who's in somebody who's in a similar situation that you can bounce ideas off of.
Speaker ABut business ownership can be tough.
Speaker AIt can be beautiful, it can be everything in between.
Speaker ABut it certainly can be lonely.
Speaker ASo don't do it alone.
Speaker AAll right, everybody, I'll see you next week.









